{"id":3955,"date":"2024-08-12T16:26:57","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T16:26:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/comunicare-silentioasa\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T16:26:57","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T16:26:57","slug":"comunicare-silentioasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/comunicare-silentioasa\/","title":{"rendered":"Comunicare Silen\u021bioas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

De cele mai multe ori, \u00een timpul terapiei, con\u0219tient sau nu, copilul meu interior iese la suprafa\u021b\u0103. Copiii cu care lucrez pot sim\u021bi acest lucru \u0219i adesea se conecteaz\u0103 cu el pentru a-\u0219i comunica nevoile. C\u00e2nd \u00eencepe o \u0219edin\u021b\u0103, de obicei am un plan pentru ziua respectiv\u0103 care echilibreaz\u0103 solicit\u0103rile p\u0103rin\u021bilor cu nevoile copilului. Cu toate acestea, totul se poate schimba \u00een momentul \u00een care copilul intr\u0103 \u00een camer\u0103 \u0219i simt o anumit\u0103 stare intens\u0103 din partea lui, remodel\u00e2nd complet planul meu. <\/p>\n

Un exemplu recent s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu un copil de opt ani diagnosticat cu TSA \u0219i non-verbal. \u0218edin\u021ba a \u00eenceput normal \u0219i am \u00eenceput activitatea planificat\u0103. Aproximativ la jum\u0103tatea acesteia, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 \u00eei pierd aten\u021bia\u2014de\u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2nea tehnic implicat, p\u0103rea absent. Am schimbat activit\u0103\u021bile, dar s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat acela\u0219i lucru. Am decis s\u0103 opresc totul \u0219i s\u0103 creez un plan nou \u00een c\u00e2teva minute. <\/p>\n

\u00cen timp ce m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam la noul plan, l-am observat st\u00e2nd pe canapea, privind \u00een gol cu o postur\u0103 melancolic\u0103. M-am apropiat, l-am m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat u\u0219or pe cap \u0219i m-am a\u0219ezat l\u00e2ng\u0103 el. C\u00e2nd m-am oprit din a m\u0103 juca cu p\u0103rul lui pentru a continua planificarea pe telefon, mi-a luat telefonul \u0219i l-a pus pe mas\u0103. Cu cealalt\u0103 m\u00e2n\u0103, mi-a apucat tricoul, a expirat brusc \u00een timp ce se apleca spre mine \u0219i \u0219i-a rezemat capul pe um\u0103rul meu, str\u00e2ng\u00e2ndu-\u0219i m\u00e2inile \u00een jurul m\u00e2inilor mele ca o juc\u0103rie de plu\u0219 \u00eenainte de culcare. <\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd ochii no\u0219tri s-au \u00eent\u00e2lnit, am putut citi \u00een privirea lui nevoia de relaxare emo\u021bional\u0103 prin prezen\u021ba mea \u0219i dorin\u021ba pentru c\u00e2teva momente de conexiune pur\u0103, autentic\u0103. Acest lucru a permis copilului meu interior s\u0103 ias\u0103 pe deplin la suprafa\u021b\u0103, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 pot asigura c\u0103 el se simte \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103, \u00een\u021beles \u0219i iubit \u00een acel moment. Dup\u0103 aproximativ cincisprezece minute de conexiune emo\u021bional\u0103 profund\u0103, s-a ridicat, s-a a\u0219ezat la mas\u0103 \u0219i a dorit s\u0103 reia activitatea ini\u021bial\u0103 cu bucurie. \u00cen ochii lui, am putut citi: \u201e\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 m-ai \u00een\u021beles.\u201d<\/em> <\/p>\n

\u00cen acel moment, adultul din mine s-a conectat cu copilul meu interior \u0219i i-a permis s\u0103 curg\u0103 liber, oferind b\u0103ie\u021belului din fa\u021ba mea \u00eentregul spectru emo\u021bional de care avea nevoie.<\/p>\n

La sf\u00e2r\u0219itul \u0219edin\u021bei, am \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219it acest moment cu p\u0103rintele, care a fost fericit c\u0103 l-am \u00een\u021beles \u0219i am comunicat cu el at\u00e2t de eficient.<\/p>\n

Gabriel Ariasu<\/strong><\/p>\n \n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

De cele mai multe ori, \u00een timpul terapiei, con\u0219tient sau nu, copilul meu interior iese la suprafa\u021b\u0103. Copiii cu care lucrez pot sim\u021bi acest lucru \u0219i adesea se conecteaz\u0103 cu el pentru a-\u0219i comunica nevoile. C\u00e2nd \u00eencepe o \u0219edin\u021b\u0103, de obicei am un plan pentru ziua respectiv\u0103 care echilibreaz\u0103 solicit\u0103rile p\u0103rin\u021bilor cu nevoile copilului. Cu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3956,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"gallery","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"tpgb_global_settings":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[52],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-gallery","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-noutati","post_format-post-format-gallery"],"tpgb_featured_images":{"full":["https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Child-Counseling.jpg",768,1024,false],"tp-image-grid":["https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Child-Counseling-700x700.jpg",700,700,true],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Child-Counseling-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Child-Counseling-225x300.jpg",225,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Child-Counseling.jpg",768,1024,false],"large":["https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Child-Counseling.jpg",768,1024,false],"default":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/wp-content\/plugins\/the-plus-addons-for-block-editor\/assets\/images\/tpgb-placeholder.jpg"},"tpgb_post_meta_info":{"get_date":"august 12, 2024","get_modified_date":"august 12, 2024","category_list":{"category":[{"term_id":52,"name":"Nout\u0103\u021bi","slug":"noutati","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":52,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":6,"filter":"raw"}],"post_tag":false,"post_format":[{"term_id":28,"name":"Galerie","slug":"post-format-gallery","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":28,"taxonomy":"post_format","description":"","parent":0,"count":2,"filter":"raw"}]},"author_name":"management","author_url":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/author\/management\/","author_email":"management@therapywithlove.digitalvp.es","author_website":"http:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es","author_description":"","author_facebook":"","author_twitter":"","author_instagram":"","author_role":["administrator"],"author_firstname":"","author_lastname":"","user_login":"management","author_avatar":"","author_avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/29bd11eca8ce4254ee31ce6bbadd94f0b033c0dab6f7f3a20a72178dd525e559?s=96&d=mm&r=g","comment_count":0,"post_likes":0,"post_views":0},"tpgb_post_category":{"category":"Nout\u0103\u021bi<\/a> ","post_format":"Galerie<\/a> "},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3955","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3955"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3955\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3956"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3955"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3955"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapywithlove.digitalvp.es\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3955"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}